SURE, IT'S IMPORTANT TO BE
AN INDIVIDUAL. BUT IF YOU
COULD CHOOSE TO BE LIKE
ANYONE IN THE WORLD,
WHO WOULD IT BE?
Think about it: what would Africa be like if we all had someone
to look up to for a change? I have a theory that our continent
would be totally transformed if we each had a person to
inspire us to do our best.
Ask your friends who their role models are, and how many of
them would say someone from Africa? OK, Nelson Mandela is
a great example of a hero from our continent. So are Barack
Obama, Lucas Radebe and even Charlize Theron. They're all
symbols of what Africans can achieve when we push through
the glass ceiling and explore possibilities. But we're so used to
hearing the same old stories about our mother land -- poverty,
disease, corruption, crime -- that it's easy to forget how many
great African role models are out there.
More importantly, it's easy to forget that you can be a great African role
model yourself.
The truth is, if enough young people decided to copy all the
good examples around us today (or even learn from the
mistakes of the not-so-great examples) then Africa would be a
very different place tomorrow. Just imagining yourself scoring
as many goals as Lucas or winning an Oscar like Charlize
can literally change your life, because once you can imagine
something good for your life, you can start working towards getting it.
We asked a few 2009 GOLD Lead Peer Educators who they
look to for inspiration. Most of them mentioned people from
their own communities: parents, teachers and close relatives
all played a big role in inspiring them and guiding them to
achieve.
When you've taken a look at what they had to say,
take a moment to think about who you'd choose to copy. Then
picture yourself achieving the same things they've achieved
and what it would take for you to get there. It's the first step
to becoming someone else's hero.
Ronel Manuel
Ronel Manuel lists her sister as a role model. She's an energetic and passionate sports
scientist who is such a great example that Ronel wants to become a sports manager
too. Every day, before going to work, Ronel's sister leaves a script of a bible verse to
inspire Ronel. She always takes time to listen and help her sister work through issues.
Ronel's other role model is her peer education facilitator, Edwin. He's a man who
lives what he teaches. He doesn't rush ahead to come up with plans for the people he
mentors; instead, he takes them through their ideas step by step until they can agree
on a way to go.
Lindinkosi Ricardo Yoko
Lindinkosi's father is a supervisor in correctional services. Sounds scary, right? Not
to Lindinkosi. He says he looks up to his dad because he is always actively involved in other
people's lives and encourages them to keep focused on their goals. Living up to that example is
a challenge for Lindinkosi and he hopes to give his father the satisfaction of seeing his son do
well one day.
Mendy Tyhawana
Mendy's mom has gone through extremely rough times: from a fire that
destroyed their home to the death of her husband. And yet, Mendy says her
mom remained positive until all the hard times had passed. She taught her
that with a positive attitude, hard work and good choices, she could be the
best version of herself.
Bathabile Mashaba
For Bathabile, her late mom is her role model because she was willing
to stand up for what she believed in and she never let those around
her give up hope. She never let them set small goals out of fear. She
always encouraged them to do big things in life and take chances. She
understood that you never know what you can or can't do until you try.
Siphe Nqodi
Siphe Nqodi says his father is also one of his role models, but not in the usual way.
He says he works hard to never be like him. His other role models are his Grade
12 teacher, Andrea Kleinschmidt and his high school principal. Siphe says that his
love and appreciation of IT was all because of his grade 12 teacher, who continually
inspired him to do better. His principal taught him basic financial management, and
the importance of being responsible and accountable when it comes to finances.